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strMailinglistMessage2Looking for the "Elder Statesman" ......
Category: Local Talk (General Topics) | Language: E
From: PragmaCynic on Oct 08 14, 05:11

I've been thinking of my ideal woman, and wanted to place my thoughts here. A friend of mine wants me to try and be hopeful and positive so … here goes.

She is the soft butch to equalize my ultra-femme. I don't even have a problem if she sometimes gets confused for a man. For me, that's exciting. In a nutshell; Taller than me, short hair, flat chest. Handsome in a suit and tie.

Her age can be up to 5 years under mine, but I confess to liking the older statesman. She can be up to 15 years older than me … more if we truly click.

I have my hands full working on my own weight. As a result, I would prefer someone that is between thin and slightly overweight.

Physical health becomes an issue as we get older. I don't want to fall in love just to have that snatched away from me due to ill health.

Race can be anything under the sun, as long as our personalities mesh. But religion may become an issue as I am not Christian and I do not react well to conversion attempts.

Now … that takes care of the icky, politically incorrect physical desires list. What will this elder statesman soft butch have to do emotionally?

Location … I suppose that for friendship anyplace in the contiguous United States would work, but I am also open to Canada and the UK … anyplace where language will not frustrate us. Relocation … we'll have to see who is relocating to whom, if either of us.

The few friends I have tell me that the woman of my dreams will have to have patience and to spare. Some of them may think that my elder statesman woman should be a psychiatrist. I think they're kidding, but …..

I will not pretend that I am “rainbows and skittles”, “kitties and puppies” or “sunny and seventies” in the personality department. The truth of the matter is that I am a pragmatic cynic with trust issues streaming out of every available opening.

However, part of that comes from the fact that, when I give myself and my heart, I don't go halfway. I love completely, friends or lovers. The thing is … I no longer give it with ease.

Since I have begun looking for lesbian companionship online, I've found that far too many want “instant gratification”. I don't move fast anymore. While I lived in my closet, I moved with lightening speed. Now I am all about “slow and steady wins the race”.

Also I have found a lot of folks can't be bothered with long and detailed emails. Part of the “instant gratification” think, I think. But conversation is very important to me and I like to think it is for others in my age requirements. My trust issues mean it will be at least a week or two before I am ready to move from emails to IM's to SMS to telephone calls. She needs to be ready for that.

I have a very active role playing life. This is not the kind of role playing like “Lady of the manner and her hand maiden” sex role play. I'm into paragraph posting plot driven role play and have a virtual island dedicated to that. Nothing would make me happier than to have someone special to play in the storylines I create.

Basically I am not perfect. I am a homebody whose clubbing and partying days are WELL behind me. Now I am looking for someone to share my golden years with.

So if you might be my elder statesman woman, please contact me. 
strMailinglistMessage2Love & Faith-What Matter Most
Category: Local Talk (General Topics) | Language: E
From: peaceonearth67 on Oct 31 14, 04:01

I am a mom, Christian, friend, lover, student, musician, writer, babysitter, daughter, sister, niece, granddaughter, and woman of a mixed racial background with a physical illness who is still trying to grow up.
I am back in school so that I can finish my psychology bachelor's degree and get a better job. I hope to make money singing gigs someday. I also want to publish my poetry in the future.
I love a variety of music that I can sing, dance, and listen to and love activities dealing with those things.
I am looking for women who want to be friends, take their time, get to know each other, date, see what happens, who try to be a good person, and can accept my crazy life.
I hope to meet women in person sooner rather than later and love singing, dancing, reading, writing poetry, poetry readings, concerts, coffeehouses, eating out, movies at the theater & home, museums, walks in nature, and new experiences or adventures.
I am a friendly, caring, compassionate, honest, and intelligent woman who loves to meet new women and is a good listener and enjoy talking as well.
It is important to me that we are equals, treat each other with respect, can trust each other, be honest with each other, be friends, try not to judge each other, help each other, & that we can be supportive & positive with each other in a relationship.
I love everything about women & what makes them feminine in myself & in other women. I enjoy the softness, curves, beauty, touch, & feel of a woman. I also love their closeness, friendship, sensitivity, & intelligence. I hope to make friends & go on some dates. I am also open to friends with benefits. I am bi but prefer romantic relationships and intimacy with women.
strMailinglistMessage2are you a non-practicing lesbian ? Me too :)
Category: Friendship | Language: E
From: oceanstwelve on Oct 30 14, 11:28


If you are gay and decided to live a singles life forever because for God you have given up worldly pleasures , would love to share thoughts on our strange existence :)  
strMailinglistMessage0looking for friends
Category: Local Talk (General Topics) | Language: E
From: kerrym on Oct 30 14, 01:20

Hi im new on here im looking for someone nice to be friends with i love eating out .
i am from Southport Merseyside would love to meet someone who understand .iam married with 3 kids
hope to here soon
Category: Lesbian Dating | Language: E
From: starsandbone on Oct 29 14, 21:58

Just joined up as recommended by my best friend. Hopefully my picture will show up soon but in the meantime I wanted to say hello!  
strMailinglistMessage2Hot Spots for Lesbians / Gay Places in Miami Beach
Category: Local Talk (General Topics) | Language: E
From: CanadaDry on Oct 27 14, 17:03

Hi there,
me and my partner are travelling to Miami Beach in November. We are staying in SoBe and would like to find out where to go. Are there any lesbian venues worth checking out? Any lesbian/gay restaurants/coffee shops you could recommend? We've been there before but we struggled to find places for lesbians/gay women.... So your recommendations are more than welcome.
Thanks for helping out! 
strMailinglistMessage0why is it so hard
Category: Local Talk (General Topics) | Language: E
From: sunshinememphis on Oct 27 14, 03:21

why is it so hard for older women over 50 to find someone?
I need some answers ladies.
strMailinglistMessage0Looking to make friends in the Ottawa area
Category: Local Talk (General Topics) | Language: E
From: MissTotos on Oct 26 14, 05:46

My name is Lisa, I'm 33 years old and I am from a small city in South Eastern Ontario not too far from Ottawa. I am a warm hearted person. I am a bit of a dork. I enjoy writing, drawing, video editing and reading. I can be both a smart ass and a dumb ass, sometimes simultaneously.

I just want to meet some nice people and be social. I would love to make some new friends and message each other back and forth. When it comes to love I am not necessarily looking for it as I am secure in being single but I have my eyes wide open so if someone special crosses my path I won't miss them.

For me, being friends with someone is the most important first step in any relationship. I'm not looking for something complicated just some cool people that want to hang out and geek it up with me about our favourite shows or enjoy general silliness with.

I'm talkative, somewhat forgetful, easily distracted by shiny objects but also highly focused when it comes to activities that interest me. I can be witty, silly, good company and totally random. I tend to have a positive attitude most of the time and could be considered chipper, except in the mornings because mornings should be outlawed. I have a high sense of empathy which allows me to be a pretty perceptive person when it comes to other peoples feelings. I am not overly logical or practical, though I can be when necessary, I'm oddly awesome in high pressure situations.

I have respect for myself and others. I try to be the best friend I can be to the people in my life because I believe we all deserve the best out of each other. My family is awesome and supportive of me which I can't be more grateful for and they are just really swell people. I'm a self proclaimed dork. I dig boardgames and movie nights. I love the night. The darkness and silence soothes something in me and I love just walking around at night or looking at the stars especially when I'm out in the country.

I'd like to think that I am relatively intelligent but I suppose it all depends on who I'm being compared to. I'm extremely right brained so I'm artistic and very visual. I draw portraits, paint, amongst other things. I am an open minded person and when I say that I mean that I don't take offense to other peoples ideas and beliefs just because they don't match up with mine. I like to hear about other peoples culture, beliefs and whatnot and I don't mind agreeing to disagree on certain things.

In any relationship I want someone to love me for who I am, not who I could be. I want someone who likes being around me just because they think I am great and fun to spend time with. I want someone who will call me on my bullsh*t and then hug me. I want someone who can share my life but still keep their own. I want someone to snuggle up to and watch movies with. I want someone that shares my sense of humour. I want someone that's not afraid to be who they are, fully. I want someone who is feminine, curvy and sensual. I want to be with someone that I have awesome chemistry with. I need an honest love.

My happy ending would involve a woman that just "gets" me and we would have crazy chemistry, so much so that my body would shake with the feeling of it. I would want to travel with her and stay still with her, joke with her, cuddle with her, have mind blowing orgasms with her, read to her, dance and play with her, support her, encourage her, sleep with her, stay awake with her all night, sit at a bonfire roasting marshmallows with and eventually grow old and wrinkly with.

So if you reached the end of this and are looking for a great friend gimme a shout.  
strMailinglistMessage2Down to earth, straight-forward lesbian look for the same
Category: Lesbian Dating | Language: E
From: xiaoakai on Oct 24 14, 22:51 (edited: Oct 26 14, 19:04)

Originally from China, I’ve been living in Canada for almost six years. Have been to Eastern Canada, and there are so many more places I’d like to go, with someone.
I like reading, instrument music, traveling and gardening. Anything outdoor. Cycling, hiking, skating, swimming. I am generally curious about anything, new places, people and cultures. I like to hear people’s stories, and simply talking with people, listen to their lives. You see, I am more of a listener than a leader.
I like to be in harmony with the world around me. I’m very down to earth, honest, practical person. Not romantic with flowers everyday, not into that type either. I believe nature brings the best of everything and everybody. Truth has the most beauty.
I especially value intelligence. Knowledge earns my admiration.
I’m looking for a companion–someone with her own life, share similar interests. Health and kind.  
strMailinglistMessage2Bella new friend
Category: Friendship | Language: E
From: Bella92796 on Oct 24 14, 20:49

Hey an i am new here and you are cute
I would like to talk to you an get to know you better  
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