From: HoldenV8Supercars on Feb 18 16, 08:32

Just looking for new friends. I'm new to the community here and I would just like to make friends and have some great laughs and chats. 

From: CaliforniaIndian on Jan 11 10, 17:52

Howka.. I am hoping some maori or kiwi sistahs are on here. I am coming to Auckland at the end of August for 2 weeks.. I will staying with some Maoris but am hoping to find meet some lesbians while I am there.. Give me a shout out... Karen  

From: neka on Apr 19 08, 13:51

hello and greetings to our NZ SHOEs :-)

hope you are doing well. we've had reports, that some of our NZ shoes are having problems accessing the SHOE site. at times it seems, some are completely unable to gain access.

so we would like to ask you a big favour ;-)

any chance of doing the following so that we can pinpoint the problem better?

go to start - run - cmd and enter

ping 81.94.97.82
ping shoe.org

the following command is called tracert or traceroute depending on your system:

tracert 81.94.97.82
tracert shoe.org

please copy/paste what the results are and we can then probably see what the problem is.

if you are unsure as to where to enter these commands, please check out the following website: http://commandwindows.com/runline.htm they have printscreens ;-)

thanks a bunch in advance! please send your results to info@shoe.org
best wishes,

your SHOE-team
:: NEKA inside :: 

From: on Dec 28 04, 17:05

Hello Girls around the Globe …….

I am looking for a very good friendship first, as well as for a caring loving relationship.

I am living in the city of Sao Paulo in Brasil.

I am strong like an Oak tree and sensitive like a baby. I see the world with the eyes of a child. I believe in angels and fairies. I adore oriental philosophy.(India China)

I like Chi Gong and ( Marshal Art in general), Astrology Painting and Fotography.

I love Travelling especially to lesser frequetned countries , to remote peaceful areas as well as international cities.

I am a lady with care and humility. Someone you can count.

I will enrich your life make you lough give you pleasure , happyness and peace. I admit I am not an angel and not the most easy girl , but I have very good intentions.

My heart is big an my mind ful of understanding, Lough and cry with me , I am hear waiting for you.
I do consulting- counceling , I am a researcher, artist and astrologer.


All my Love and Care to all of you
Divine Love

 

From: elfkin on May 03 04, 14:06

Anybody else out there going through mid-life confusion? I am. I wouldn't exactly call it a mid-life crisis because that's a little too dramatic and drama is something I gave up a long time ago.

But definitely confusing. Entering the early stages of menopause. Feeling like a teenager as I watch my body have its own emotional life at certain times of the month. Thankfully, am grounded enough to usually just sort of step back and watch as the hormones play with my emotions and tell myself, Okay. This is your body talking. If you still feel that way in a couple of days you can consider doing something about that. But, until then, you can have that emotion but you can't act on it.

Re-evaluating my life in the middle of this hormonal dance is a tricky process. Find myself wanting to make major changes, knowing I need to make a few, but not trusting myself quite as fully as I usually do.

I'm lonely for the first time in my life. Not quite sure how that happened. Pulled back from community to do some self-healing for a while. A good thing. But in doing so, lost nearby community. Know it's time to reconnect, need to reach out and reform community but not feeling like myself as I try... Feeling shy and a little insecure and having rarely experienced those particular emotions, don't quite know how to work with them. My long distance friends from other places I've lived are supportive but don't quite get it cause they can't really imagine me being shy or insecure.

Find myself thinking it'd be easier to just start over somewhere entirely new. Though the community where I live is so transient it is almost entirely new. Maybe another country. Maybe some place where people are less transient. Or are all communities transient these days? Moved here about eight years ago and when I was more active in the community, seems like every few years almost everyone I'd connected with gradually all up and moved elsewhere.

Find myself assessing my life, pondering lifelong dreams that I haven't pursued, wondering which ones I need to let go, which ones I need to hurry up and do something about.

Anybody else dancing with similar life processes?

 

From: elfkin on May 03 04, 14:06

Anybody else out there going through mid-life confusion? I am. I wouldn't exactly call it a mid-life crisis because that's a little too dramatic and drama is something I gave up a long time ago.

But definitely confusing. Entering the early stages of menopause. Feeling like a teenager as I watch my body have its own emotional life at certain times of the month. Thankfully, am grounded enough to usually just sort of step back and watch as the hormones play with my emotions and tell myself, Okay. This is your body talking. If you still feel that way in a couple of days you can consider doing something about that. But, until then, you can have that emotion but you can't act on it.

Re-evaluating my life in the middle of this hormonal dance is a tricky process. Find myself wanting to make major changes, knowing I need to make a few, but not trusting myself quite as fully as I usually do.

I'm lonely for the first time in my life. Not quite sure how that happened. Pulled back from community to do some self-healing for a while. A good thing. But in doing so, lost nearby community. Know it's time to reconnect, need to reach out and reform community but not feeling like myself as I try... Feeling shy and a little insecure and having rarely experienced those particular emotions, don't quite know how to work with them. My long distance friends from other places I've lived are supportive but don't quite get it cause they can't really imagine me being shy or insecure.

Find myself thinking it'd be easier to just start over somewhere entirely new. Though the community where I live is so transient it is almost entirely new. Maybe another country. Maybe some place where people are less transient. Or are all communities transient these days? Moved here about eight years ago and when I was more active in the community, seems like every few years almost everyone I'd connected with gradually all up and moved elsewhere.

Find myself assessing my life, pondering lifelong dreams that I haven't pursued, wondering which ones I need to let go, which ones I need to hurry up and do something about.

Anybody else dancing with similar life processes?

 

From: on Jan 13 04, 00:34

Hi all. I was just wondering if there were any girls from Christchurch. I would love to hear from you. I am 22 and my partner is 24. Yes I have a partner and I love her. I am just wanting friends as we dont have many lesbian friends and would like some.
Take care and have fun
Jessi 

From: on Nov 01 03, 14:02

hello! i'm 26 years old and i planing to go next year for one year to new zealand. to see the land and meet the people aud to get to know something about the country. i coming from germany. now my question. did somebody know where i can find places to sleep and maybe a little job. or maybe some of you have some ideas for sightseeing. if than i would be really happy for informations. 

From: Coralina on Oct 06 03, 16:58

I am celebrating my birthday - 43 - sitting here with my cakes waiting for my friends to eat them - the cakes ;-))) wish you all a nice day 

From: Coralina on Oct 06 03, 16:58

I am celebrating my birthday - 43 - sitting here with my cakes waiting for my friends to eat them - the cakes ;-))) wish you all a nice day