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KinkyArtsyNerd on Apr 01 17, 20:08I just moved up to the North Seattle area to help take care of my mom and grew up in the Northwest though not in the Seattle area. I am an introvert and avoid the bar scene and cigarette smoke for my health. I like to dance if there is a smoke free place to do so. I am not sure where to make new lesbian friends. I go to the gym and actively ignore everyone there with my music an headphones on so I don't have to deal with dudes staring at me.
I am fairly butch looking but I hate watching sports and I can't stand football culture. I do like to be active with walking, roller skating, dancing, maybe biking but I need time afterwards to rest and do something more restful. Large crowds use up my energy quickly and I have to plan out how much time I can spend in those type of places.
I like reciprocity, connection, mindfulness. I think it is important to give people room to grow and be who they are. I think it doesn't matter where on the butch/femme or gender spectrum you appear to be. What matters is who you are the way you show yourself to others, the way you respect yourself and the value you give to what is important to you. Self possession is a great thing.
I am usually hanging around the art and cookbooks at local bookstores and libraries. I go for walks around town to find a place near the water to do some sketching or write some poetry. I am learning lefty guitar at home and I am self taught in a lot of the creative things I do. I learned how to cook and sew from my grandmother and I learned how to make much of what I do my own.
I like board games, word games, tabletop gaming. I like video games that are fantasy based with problem solving and character development. I don't play first person shooters.
Send me a message if you want to chat or hang out!